
AI Conversations – Your Questions Answered
2025.03.27.
What kinds of questions do we explore with an AI? Do we trust it more easily, relying on our anonymity, than we would a real, flesh-and-blood professional? Is it easier to drop our inhibitions, our internal resistance, because of the facelessness, the convenience, or some other illusion?
The Vendler AI has been live for 5 days.
The ChatGPT framework doesn’t provide me with exact data—I don’t know who asked what, or even who used it. But based on comments, private messages, and personal conversations, the number of active users seems to be around 100. While the system doesn’t grant access to individual conversations, it does analyze them—and the resulting data is quite interesting.
So far, who has used it, and why?
Looking at the topics, around 55–60% of the conversations revolve around entrepreneurial and career-related issues—starting out, resetting, getting stuck, positioning, confidence, sales, time management, or the classic: “How could I make a living from this?” The remaining 40–45% focus on personal and self-reflection themes—authenticity, relationships, indecisiveness, self-worth, letting go, burnout, and identity crises.
According to the AI’s analysis, many business questions are rooted in emotional dynamics (e.g., a need to please, “I want to prove something to my father”), while personal dilemmas often show up as business-related challenges (e.g., “I can’t say no to a client because I’m afraid of being rejected”).
Analyzing the style of these conversations is fascinating as well: about 40–45% of users take a practical, goal-oriented approach. These chats are filled with clear questions, concrete dilemmas, deadlines, and decision-making scenarios, with little emotional undertone. Common words: how, when, what should I choose, where do I start.
About 35–40% of the conversations are reflective and introspective, marked by longer introductions, metaphorical language, emotions, and questions behind the questions. There are fewer specifics, more of a “working from a feeling” vibe. The remaining 15–20% of users float between the two styles, bringing in both concrete topics and deeper thoughts—though they may not yet know which direction to take. A common phrase: “I’m just thinking, it’s not urgent, but I feel like something needs to change.”
The most frequent theme by far is identity crisis and internal realignment, especially during decision-making situations. This appears not just as a business or professional question, but as a deeply personal dilemma: “What I’ve been doing no longer works—but I don’t yet know what comes next.” This category includes transition, letting go, reimagining, burnout, uncertainty, and questions of authenticity.
I'm curious to see where this goes—how Vendler AI evolves and what you think of it. Try the prototype and let me know.
It would help a lot. Definitely me—but maybe you, too.
Link to use the AI:
https://chatgpt.com/g/g-67e0273295f88191b5525e71180265f9-vendler-ai